Your wedding is supposed to be a very special day for all those involved. However, before you can get to your wedding, you need to make sure that you have these three conversations with your spouse to ensure that you are on the same page, and your wedding can be the happiest day of your lives.

1.       Budget

A wedding can be very expensive, and it is important to make sure that you talk with your spouse about the budget. Money sometimes can be a sensitive issue, but you and your spouse need to be on the same page about how much money you are willing to spend. Making a smart budget can also help make sure that you have everything you want at the wedding.

2.       Expectations

Another important subject to talk with your spouse about is the expectations of the wedding. Your spouse is not able to read your mind and may not know what you expect from the wedding. For example, you may want to have a big fancy wedding while your spouse may want a smaller and more simple wedding. This can cause unneeded conflict if you do not have this conversation. This is why it is important that you spend some time talking about what you expect, so your expectations can be met.

3.       Guest List

The final thing you need to talk about your spouse is the guest list. The guest list, in many respects, can help give you an idea for your budget and your expectations. Your guest list should be a combination of both of your lives, so discussing it can make sure that the most important people from your lives will be there.

 Weddings can be a stressful situation for many different reasons, and there are many different conversations that you and your spouse will need to have. However, budget, expectations, and the guest list are the three most important conversations that you need to have before your big day.